Book Keynote Speaker Khary Penebaker
Nearly 30 years of building companies, surviving loss, and fighting for change. I bring real stories, real numbers, and real talk to every stage.
Speaking topics
Every talk I give comes from lived experience. I do not read from a script. I tell the truth about what I have seen, built, lost, and learned.
Gun violence prevention
My mother Joyce completed suicide with a gun when I was 20 months old. I grew up carrying that loss without understanding it. For decades I did not talk about it publicly. When I finally did, I discovered something: people needed to hear from survivors, not just statistics.
I share the reality of growing up without a mother, the long silence that follows gun violence loss, and what it looks like when a survivor decides to fight for change. This is not a policy lecture. I bring the personal cost of gun violence into the room in a way that changes how people think about the issue.
I have spoken at the Democratic National Convention twice (2016 and 2020), appeared in national media including TIME Magazine and CBS News, and worked alongside organizations like Everytown for Gun Safety. My perspective bridges personal loss and public advocacy, giving audiences a framework for understanding why gun violence prevention is a human issue, not a political one.
Explore this topicBest for: Advocacy organizations, policy conferences, healthcare audiences, nonprofits, and any group working on public health or community safety.
From survivor to advocate
The journey from private grief to public advocacy is not linear. It took me years to speak publicly about my mother's death. When I finally did, at the 2016 Democratic National Convention, I learned that vulnerability is not weakness. It is strategy.
I talk about what it actually takes to turn personal pain into public purpose. Not the inspirational version. The real version: the fear of exposure, the pushback from people who want you to stay quiet, the exhaustion of being a public face for a private wound. And the moment when you realize that your story is not just yours. It belongs to every family that has been through the same silence.
This talk is built for people who want to use their platform for something larger but do not know how to start. I share tactical lessons from my own path: how to tell your story without being consumed by it, how to set boundaries while still being effective, and how to build a sustainable practice of advocacy that does not burn you out.
Explore this topicBest for: Survivor networks, nonprofit leaders, social workers, healthcare professionals, and anyone building a public voice around a personal experience.
Building resilient teams
I started Penebaker Enterprises with $1,500 and a used truck. Grew it to $15 million in annual revenue with 50 employees. Then I scaled Roofed Right America to over $35 million with 180 employees across five states. Both companies were built in the commercial roofing and construction industry, where the margin for error is tight and the labor market is unforgiving.
What I learned: teams do not become resilient because you tell them to. They become resilient because the systems you build reward accountability, the culture you create allows honest mistakes, and the leadership you model shows what it looks like to make hard decisions without hiding from them.
I share the frameworks I used to build high-performing teams in one of the toughest industries in the country. How to hire for character and train for skill. How to hold people accountable without creating fear. How to scale culture as headcount grows. And how to handle the moments when everything goes wrong and your team is watching.
Explore this topicBest for: Corporate leadership teams, industry conferences, entrepreneurs, construction and trades organizations, and any audience dealing with high-turnover, high-stakes operating environments.
The executive who advocates
When I spoke at the Democratic National Convention, I was also running a $35 million roofing company. Not everyone thought that was a good idea. Clients had opinions. Employees had questions. Partners pushed back.
I did it anyway. And what I found is that advocacy and enterprise are not in conflict when you do it with integrity. The key is being clear about what you believe, why you believe it, and where the line is between personal conviction and professional responsibility.
This talk is for leaders who want to use their platform for social impact but are afraid of the consequences. I share what worked, what did not, and what I would do differently. I cover how to take a public position without alienating your market, how to bring your team along, and how to handle the inevitable backlash from people who want executives to stay in their lane.
The reality is that every leader is already political. The question is whether you are going to be intentional about it or let others define your position for you.
Explore this topicBest for: C-suite executives, entrepreneurs, business school audiences, and leadership development programs.
Resilience and adversity
I was born in Cincinnati. My mother died by suicide when I was 20 months old. I grew up in a family that did not talk about it. I started my career with nothing. No degree. No connections. No safety net.
What I built from that starting point was not an accident. It was a series of decisions made under pressure, each one compounding into the next. I talk about what resilience actually looks like when you strip away the motivational quotes and Instagram captions.
Real resilience is not about bouncing back. It is about building forward. I share the specific moments that defined my path: starting a business with $1,500, walking away from a company I built when the partnership went wrong, standing on a national stage and telling the truth about my mother's death. Each story carries a lesson about decision-making under uncertainty, the difference between surviving and thriving, and why the hardest moments in your career are often the ones that matter most.
Explore this topicBest for: Corporate events, university commencements, leadership retreats, and any audience that values authentic stories over polished narratives.
The future of home services
I have spent nearly 30 years in the construction and home improvement industry. I have installed roofs, run crews, closed million-dollar contracts, and managed operations across five states. I am currently Regional General Manager at Great Day Improvements, overseeing four markets in the Upper Midwest.
This industry is changing fast. Labor shortages are structural, not cyclical. Customer expectations are rising while margins are tightening. Technology is reshaping everything from sales to installation, and the companies that adapt will dominate the next decade.
I share what I am seeing on the ground: how the best operators are solving the labor problem, where technology is actually delivering ROI versus where it is just a distraction, and why customer experience is becoming the primary competitive advantage in home services. I bring real numbers from real operations, not theory from consultants who have never run a crew.
Explore this topicBest for: Industry conferences, trade associations, home improvement companies, and construction industry events.
See Khary speak
Watch me in action. From national stages to community rooms, every talk is personal.
It's ok, Not To Be Ok
Random Acts of Kindness Speech
Past highlights
I have spoken at some of the biggest stages in the country and in community rooms that mattered just as much.
- 2020 Democratic National Convention (DNC 2020). National address on gun violence prevention, broadcast to millions.
- 2016 Democratic National Convention (DNC 2016). Shared my personal story as a survivor of gun violence loss to a national audience.
- 2020 Bloomberg Super Bowl Campaign. Featured in national digital ad series across 12 states on gun violence prevention.
- Ongoing Gun violence prevention events and panels. Partnering with Everytown for Gun Safety and community advocacy organizations.
- Ongoing Business and industry conferences. Leadership, team building, and operational scaling in the home improvement and construction industry.
Featured In
Ideal audiences
Corporate teams
Leadership development, resilience, and building culture that performs under pressure.
Advocacy organizations
Gun violence prevention, survivor storytelling, and grassroots strategy that moves policy.
Industry events
Home improvement, construction, and trades leadership from someone who has done the work.
Universities and students
Career building, personal brand, and turning adversity into advantage without the Instagram version.
What audiences leave with
Every keynote is built to leave your audience with more than inspiration.
Not theory. A practical approach they can put to work Monday morning.
The words and confidence to address what most teams avoid.
Renewed energy and a model for leading that does not require perfection.
Concrete tools for rebuilding momentum after setbacks, not just motivational slogans.
The kind of talk people reference months later when they need to push through.
Frequently asked questions
Answers to the questions event planners ask most.
Speaking fees vary based on the format (keynote, panel, fireside chat, workshop), audience size, event location, and travel requirements. I work with event planners to find a structure that fits the budget. Contact me through the booking form for a custom quote.
I deliver keynote addresses (30 to 60 minutes), participate in panel discussions, lead fireside chats, facilitate workshops, and appear on podcasts. I also do virtual and hybrid events with full production capability. Each format is tailored to your audience and objectives.
Yes. I am based in the Milwaukee area and available for events nationwide. Travel and accommodations are arranged separately from the speaking fee. For international events, let me know the details and we will work out logistics together.
I have spoken to audiences ranging from boardroom sessions of 20 to convention halls of over 5,000. The Democratic National Convention broadcasts reached millions. The format and energy adapt to the room. I am equally effective in intimate executive retreats and large conference keynotes.
Every keynote is tailored. I do a brief call with event organizers beforehand to understand the audience, objectives, and any specific themes you want addressed. I do not deliver the same canned talk twice. The core story stays the same, but the framing, examples, and takeaways are built for your room.
A lavalier or handheld wireless microphone, projector and screen if I am using slides (not always), and a confidence monitor when available. For virtual events, I have a professional studio setup with proper lighting, audio, and reliable internet. I will send a technical rider with specific requirements after booking.
Four to eight weeks minimum for most engagements. Larger events and conferences should book as early as possible since calendar slots fill quickly. Last-minute requests are considered on a case-by-case basis depending on availability and travel logistics.
Yes. I am fully equipped for virtual and hybrid events with professional audio, lighting, and a reliable studio setup. Virtual keynotes, webinars, and podcast appearances are all available. The energy and engagement translate well to screen when the setup is right.
Available formats
I am available for paid speaking engagements in these formats. Fees are tailored to the event scope and audience.
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