Born in Cincinnati, OH
October 22. Son of Joyce and Robert Penebaker.
From Cincinnati to the national stage. From $0 to $35M in revenue. From personal tragedy to purpose.
Khary was born in Cincinnati on October 22, 1977. He was 20 months old when his mother Joyce died by suicide. His father raised him in Milwaukee, and that loss became the thing that shaped everything.
In 2002, he started a commercial roofing and sheet metal company with nothing. By 2011, Penebaker Enterprises had $15 million in annual revenue and 50 people on payroll. He went on to help grow another company to $35 million and 180 employees, working across EPDM, TPO, GAF products, JM insulation, and full building envelope.
In 2016, he ran for Congress in Wisconsin's 5th district. He lost. He learned more about leadership in that campaign than in a decade of business. From 2017 to 2023, he served as DNC Representative for Wisconsin.
Now he channels all of it into keynotes that help organizations talk about the hard stuff: leadership under pressure, mental health, racial equity, and what resilience actually looks like when it's tested.
"I lost my mother to suicide before I could walk. That's not where my story ends. It's where it starts."
Everything is connected. Every job, every loss, every campaign. Here's how it stacks up.
October 22. Son of Joyce and Robert Penebaker.
Studied business. Started building the foundation for everything that came next.
Started a commercial roofing and sheet metal company from scratch. EPDM, TPO, GAF products, JM insulation.
Nine years of grinding. Took the company from zero to $15M in annual revenue with a team of 50.
Helped scale the operation. Deep expertise in building envelope, ANSI/SPRI standards, sheet metal.
First run for public office. Learned more about leadership in one campaign than in a decade of business.
Elected to represent Wisconsin at the Democratic National Committee. Served through 2023.
Revenue, team, and impact all at their peak. Built something real.
Speaking at the DNC Convention. 82,000+ followers on social media. Gun violence prevention advocacy reaching millions.
Taking everything learned from building, failing, running, and rebuilding, and putting it on stage for others.
No scripts, no performance. What you see is what happened.
Getting knocked down is guaranteed. Getting back up is a choice.
Real equity work is uncomfortable. That's how you know it's working.
The point of having a platform is using it for people who don't.
Engaged to Anne. Three kids: Josie, Kyan, and Sydney. Based in Waukesha, Wisconsin. Still figures out parenting one day at a time, same as everyone else.
Every keynote comes with all of it: the $35M, the campaign, the grief, the rebuild.
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